I Am A Goddess
- Kalisha Stansell

- Dec 14, 2025
- 4 min read

I am a Goddess.
A Goddess is a woman who knows who she is. She is spiritually sovereign, deeply intuitive, and rooted in her own power. She honors herself, her energy, and the unseen forces that guide her. A Goddess does not beg, chase, or manipulate—she aligns.
Yes, I do witchy things. I work with spiritual practices that have existed long before modern religion tried to erase or demonize them. You will not find me casting love spells to control a man or force someone to stay with me. Love spells that interfere with another person’s free will are dangerous and unethical. Anything that violates free will comes with a cost, and I refuse to pay that price.
When I conduct any spell or spiritual work, it is always done for the highest good of all and for everyone involved. My intentions are clean. My spirit is protected. My hands are guided.
My favorite work is protection magic and money magic—spells that secure my safety, stabilize my life, and open doors that are already meant for me. I believe in abundance, alignment, and spiritual responsibility.
Dating has been difficult for me, not because I lack love or worth, but because many men cannot understand or accept that I am not a Christian. I practice Hoodoo and Voodoo—spiritual traditions that are often misunderstood and unfairly labeled as “evil” by those who have never taken the time to study them for themselves. These practices are rooted in ancestral wisdom, survival, protection, and connection to Spirit.
Some men assume that because I am a spiritualist, I am dangerous—that I will curse them, manipulate them, or work against them. I have learned that these assumptions often come from men who already have bad intentions toward me. A man who fears my spirituality is usually a man who cannot control me—or respect me.
I know my value. I know my worth. And my spiritual path does not make me less—it makes me powerful.
Ever since I closed the doors of Christianity and began aligning my life with spiritual and universal laws, my life has improved. I am more at peace. More protected. More aligned. Working with Hoodoo and Voodoo has caused no harm, because harm has never been my intention. What you send out returns—so I choose integrity, balance, and respect for all life.
I am not here to convince anyone. I am here to live in truth and to find community.
I am seeking men and women spiritualists who understand this journey—who honor free will, ancestral wisdom, and spiritual accountability. Those who know that spirituality is not about fear, control, or dominance, but about alignment, truth, and self-mastery.
So before you attempt to date me, please understand this: my spiritual lifestyle will not be altered because you are uncomfortable with it. I will not shrink, soften, or abandon my path to make someone else feel safe in their ignorance or fear. My spirituality is not a phase, a trend, or a costume—it is who I am.
My sexual energy belongs to me and me alone. I choose how it is shared, when it is shared, and with whom it is shared. That is my free will choice. My body, my energy, and my spirit are sacred, and they are not open for negotiation, control, or entitlement.
Believe it or not, I spent the majority of my dating life sending men through what is known as the Dark Night of the Soul. The Dark Night of the Soul is a profound spiritual awakening period where everything a person has suppressed—wounds, shadows, unhealed trauma, ego, and false beliefs—rises to the surface to be confronted. It is uncomfortable, disorienting, and often painful, but it is also deeply transformative. During this time, illusions fall away, old identities die, and the soul demands truth, accountability, and healing.
For many men, I served as a mirror—reflecting back not only how they treated me, but how they had treated women before me. This mirror effect forced them to face themselves. Some chose growth. Others chose resistance. Either way, the lesson was unavoidable.
Consciously and unconsciously, I have assisted men through their healing journeys simply by being who I am—by holding my boundaries, honoring my worth, and refusing to abandon myself for love. That chapter of my life has now closed.
I am no longer here to awaken men at the expense of my own peace.
Now, I am ready to join forces with a spiritual man—one who will love me, honor me, and value me as the Goddess I am. A man who appreciates the spiritual wisdom, discernment, and power I bring to the table. A man who is not threatened by a woman who knows herself, her energy, and her purpose.
These experiences, lessons, and spiritual workings have been refined into intentional spiritual practices that I now offer through my website—rooted in integrity, free will, protection, and alignment.
So I ask you this:
Are you ready to be with a spiritual woman like me?
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